A Long Overdue Recruiter's Rant - Part 1

(a WARNING: this is a rant of the recruiter in me, Technical Writer mode is switched OFF at the moment of RANTING)

Dear Job Seeker,

Yes, am a recruitment consultant, I cater to hiring managers and their companies.
Yes, I can give you free advice on how to improve your resume. 
Yes, I may know someone "in" the company you want to work for...
Yes, I can coach you and help you prepare for interviews...and plan your career path
Yes, do send me your CV or resume, I'd love to see it in case a match comes up

NO, I will not recommend you, just because you are in any one of my social media networks, DO I KNOW YOU? I cannot recommend you and endorse you on LINKEDIN or write a recommendation letter of any type, if I haven't worked with you! I cannot attest to your character if we never met in person and never had a long-term social or business relationship.

NO, I will not write your resume / CV / profile if you don't hire me, neither expect any of my recruiter colleagues to do so, this is what we do for a living, not for charity. 

NO, I don't influence hiring decisions in companies or the hiring managers there who are not my clients! even if I know them. You see, I get paid by the client and not you my dear job seeker, as most of my fellow recruiters do. Even then, and even if I have hiring decision making power in most cases, all that I can do is recommend you based on your passing your interview evaluation with me. After-all, I'd be recruiting on behalf of the client.

NO, Don't email your CV with no cover letter what so ever! It doesn't have to be something fancy, or another attached file for that matter, just write a short paragraph (5 - 8 sentences long):

• introduce yourself, 
• tell us what position(s) your are applying for or are interested in
• give us a reason to open and read your resume
• distinguish yourself from the tens and hundreds of applications we receive daily
• make sure you have your correct contact information on your resume and in the body of your email too (add it after your signature)
• Give us something to work with for your sake!

Again NO, recruitment consultants don't run  charities; money is on the clock, yes we want to help, but for us to spend hours on hours working with you on your career or interview skills without compensation is not something we do if the client is paying us to find them the right candidates. 

There are specialized recruiters that will work with you, to develop your career and help you with leads to job opportunities; and yes, you have to pay them a percentage of your annual salary or a retainer. Seek them out, Unfortunately for you am not that kind of recruiter, but; ...if you want my help you can hire me as your career coach, but you really got to invest time and money in yourself and actually do most of the work yourself. You see, if you don't then after you are hired, this is what will happen YOU'LL GET FIRED eventually! and that's not good for either one of us! don't you agree?

We really want to hire people, and do our best to review all applicants, but can you please, a pretty please decorated with dandelions, can you just use the reference code we asked you to use in the subject line for any advertised vacancy? 

After going through hundreds of applications each day, we may as well, just overlook you because you already have demonstrated that you lack certain important skills, you didn't pay attention to details and you are unable for the life of your CAREER follow simple straightforward directions. You already have lost our attention, and probably would be moved to the Dump file, instead of getting shortlisted for second screening.

It is in the second screening mostly that a decision to call you in for an interview is made. SO please, a pretty please decorated with dandelions, Pay attention to details and follow instructions. 

If you don't meet  50% - 80% of the job requirements, please try and explain why you think you'd be the right candidate for the job? We really want to know what makes you the right choice. If you don't even meet 50% of job requirements, then, don't apply. Seriously, don't bother, because we won't!

please, a pretty please decorated with dandelions, help us help you

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Embracing Change

an excerpt from my forthcoming book Shift Into High Gear

It's healthy to embrace and respond to change as the new normal. In this day and era, with a volatile and unstable global economy, your prosperity  and your future will be determined by how you deal with all those changes. For Change is all around us, and ever happening with or without us. Change is neither good nor bad, neither right nor wrong, change just reshapes life. 

What you make of it is up to you, how you react to change, how you deal with changing circumstances around you greatly impacts your life. Life is not something that happens to you, life is what you make of it.

Mark L. Feldman asks, There are five frogs sitting on a log, and one of them decides to jump off, so  how many frogs are left?

Answer: Five!

Because there is a big difference between deciding and doing.

Accepting change is good. Thinking about it is good too. But one needs to make a conscious choice of embracing  change rather than simply embracing one's good intentions. Otherwise, we will continue to be our own victim, which will keep us caught in the same place.

The real measure of change is; can you change yourself?

It is as bad as you want it to be.

People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don’t believe in circumstances. The people who really make it in this world are the ones who get up and look for the circumstances they want and if they can’t find them, they make them.*

Do you think that what has happened to you is bad ? 

Is it a situation you wish you weren’t in? 

Then Change it. 

Look for the positives and realize that life presents many lessons to learn from. Think about what you can do yourself to turn around these difficult circumstances and grow from. If you wish you had a better relationship with somebody significant in your life, work to get just that. If you know that you have unhealthy eating habits, and have just been brushing them aside because you are “too busy,” make an effort to bring about change. Go for what you really want out of life. Maintain a positive outlook. Magic can happen.

It's all up to you!

Shift into high gear and May you live every day of your life.

…..and I know you can do it, its time you understood that too!

Change

an excerpt from my forthcoming book Shift Into High Gear 

The only constant is change. This has been accurate for all times. If you understand that, and believe it to be true, it has profound implications for your growth, development, success, 

happiness and well being.

Change is universal, it is the only constant. Change is inevitable, it is certain that things never remain the same, even people change; over time or suddenly; willingly or unwillingly; by external or internal forces; people will change as everything else changes around them.

Every day, at any given time, somewhere, something is changing. It is happening all around us, and it will forever.

However, most people fear and resist change. Why? One of the biggest reasons is that we as humans tend to get comfortable in the way we do things, it's easy for us to get accustomed to our set ways. Even though sometimes maintaining the status quo would be negatively affecting our lives and holding us back. Most of the time, we resist new things, new ideas, new possibilities just because that New Change takes us out of our comfort zone; perhaps it's the loss of a job, moving into a new city, a failed relationship, dealing with a new boss or policy at work, it could be anything, really! Anything that's pushing us out of our comfort zone.

Most people have difficulty adjusting because they are basically uncomfortable. Yet, both personal and professional growth at some level, need and depend on change.

Change is inevitable, but personal growth is a choice. – Bob Proctor

Step Out, Step Up

an excerpt from my forthcoming book Shift Into High Gear

The doors are open, what's stopping you? Step out, step up to who you are!

Yes, it's that simple, for you to be what you want to BE. But first you got to find the door, the doors are always open, if you find a closed door, or a block in the road know that it's you who's blocking your roads and locking  yourself inside, and you may be surprised to know that you always hold the keys within you; You got everything you need within you, all your tools, solutions and answers are within. All you have to do is look.

Found your door, Step out, Now!

Much as we may wish to make a new beginning, some part of us resists doing so as though we were making the first step towards disaster. – William Bridges

You may feel scared about taking the first step on a new path. At some point, we all do. Starting a new career, ending a comfortable relationship, moving on after a death…all of these can be frightening things to deal with. In life, you must be willing to take risks. Although that first step can be the most frightening, most of the time it is the most rewarding. It is the step that can launch you into success. Into the life you always wanted.

Even if you are afraid, do it anyway! risk it…and take that step you’ve been scared of. Step Out.

By searching, you have already made the decision, by stepping out, you explore options and push against comfort zones, and actually taking action towards your goals, It's time to step up to who you are.

Stepping up to be who you are, is taking charge of your life, taking responsibility for your life, for what you want and following through with a second step, and another and another. Until your reality becomes your very own living dream.

Shift into high gear and May you live every day of your life.

Life is About Choices & Decisions We Make

There are long and short roads in life; smooth and rocky roads; crooked and straight paths. Many paths shall come our way as we journey through life. There are roads that lead to a life of marriage or living single. There are also roads that lead to fame and fortune on one hand, or isolation and poverty on the other. There are roads to happiness as there are roads to sadness, roads towards victory and jubilation, and roads leading to defeat and disappointment.

Just like any road, there are corners, detours, and crossroads in life. Perhaps the most perplexing road that you would encounter is a crossroad. With multiple roads to choose from and with limited knowledge on where they would go, which road will you take? What is the guarantee that we would choose the right one along the way? Would you take any road, or just stay where you are: in front of a crossroad?


There are no guarantees.

You do not really know where a road will lead you until you take it. There are no guarantees. This is one of the most important things you need to realize about life. Nobody said that choosing to do the right thing all the time would always lead you to happiness. Loving someone with all your heart does not guarantee that it would be returned. Gaining fame and fortune does not guarantee happiness. Accepting a good word from a superior to fast-track up the career ladder is not always bad, especially if you are highly qualified and competent. There are too many possible outcomes, which your really cannot control. The only thing you have power over is the decisions that you will make, and how you would act and react to different situations.

Wrong decisions are always at hindsight.

Had you known that you were making a wrong decision, would you have gone along with it? Probably not, why would you choose a certain path when you know it would get you lost? Why make a certain decision if you knew from the very beginning that it is not the right one. It is only after you have made a decision and reflected on it that you realize its soundness. If the consequences or outcomes are good for you, then you have decided correctly. Otherwise, your decision was wrong.

Take the risk: decide.

Since life offers no guarantee and you would never know that your decision would be wrong until you have made it, then you might as well take the risk and decide. It is definitely better than keeping yourself stuck in confusion and indecision. Although it is true that one wrong turn could get you lost, it could also be that such a turn could be an opportunity for an adventure, moreover open more roads. It is all a matter of perspective. But take caution that you do not make decisions haphazardly. Taking risks is not about being careless and stupid. Here are some pointers that could help you choose the best option in the face of life’s crossroads:

1. Do Your Research: Get as many information as you can about your situation. You cannot find the confidence to decide when you know so little about what you are faced with. Just like any news reporter, ask the 5 W’s: what, who, when, where, and why. What is the situation? Who are the people involved? When did this happen? Where is this leading? Why are you in this situation? These are just some of the possible questions to ask to know more about your situation. This is important. Oftentimes, the reason for indecision is the lack of information about a situation.
2. Identify and create options. What options do the situation give you? Sometimes the options are few, but sometimes they are numerous. But what do you do when you think that the situation offers no options? This is the time that you create your own. Make your creative mind work. From the most simple to the most complicated, entertain and explore all ideas. Do not shun anything out when an idea comes to your head. Sometimes the most outrageous idea could prove to be the right one in the end. You can ask a friend to help you identify options and even make more options if you encounter some difficulty, but make sure that you make the decision yourself in the end. Even if you've hired a coach, at the end of the day, you'll be making your own decisions.
3. Evaluate; Weigh the pros and cons of every option. Assess each option by looking at the advantages and disadvantages it offers you. In this way, you get more insights about the consequences of such an option.
4. Trust yourself and make that decision. Now that you have assessed your options, it is now time to trust yourself. Remember that there are no guarantees and wrong decisions are always at hindsight. So choose… decide… believe that you are choosing the best option at this point in time.

Now that you have made a decision, be ready to face its consequences: good and bad.

It may take you to a place of promise or to a land of problems. But the important thing is that you have chosen to live your life instead of remaining a bystander or a passive audience to your own life. Whether it is the right decision or not, only time can tell. But do not regret it whatever the outcome. Instead, learn from it and remember that you always have the chance to make better decisions in the future.

Take a risk, decide how to live your own life.